May 8, 2005

When It Comes to The Ending

She told me today " If you guys were meant to be together, you will know; he would jump out the word, and you are not the one suffering now..."

是阿, 若你們注定會在一起, 我不會現在難過.

當一個你問一個你愛的人, 是否有想過你們的將來時, 他卻告訴你他的經濟不穩定, 沒法給你任何承諾. 請告訴我, 一個有尊嚴的女人還應該傻傻的和他在一起嗎?

I dont care about money, because I have, I dont care about being rich or poor, because I can living with both, but I care about the courage, because its all the matter about you're ready to BE with me or not. If you a chicken, fuckin back off! Say no more!

Its simple to end a relationship as long as you girls see how much is that man into you, if he NEEDs you, but not ready to BE with you, dump him immidiately, because he dont know what he wants, he can't give you anything either.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...


看來他會是下個被妳打入冷宮的臭男人...
welcome aboard!!

Sylvia said...

He will soon~thanks

Anonymous said...

no confident is very usual thing ba, specially he is under the $$$ pressure,
how could he give you promises with out knowing what he will be in the 5~10 years time.
if you dont really care about being rich or poor, you should let him know clearly.

叔叔在這勸和不勸離..畢竟妳們都在一起有段時間了,不簡單,也該珍惜
他所說的話..在某程度上也算是負責吧,給了妳承諾沒達成,
下場還不是被妳罵的跟豬頭一樣,達不到的事..又何必說達的到呢
原諒他吧..

Sylvia said...

I told him very clearly that I dont care about being rich or poor because it's not what i lookin for, 說過很多次, 和他談過很多次, 他每次都好似一副感激我的體諒, 但最後他還是用一樣的理由搪塞我.
你們說, 我還應該傻傻的相信他嗎?

我的EX也不是有錢人, 但愛到了, 他曾告訴我他未來的計畫, 也許不能買雙B住豪宅, 但他可以give me a sweet home and family.

我在乎的是, 他從不plan any future, 不管我們吵過幾次, 我退讓多少, 他從不願意, 因為他根本沒愛過我, 也害怕付出